Also move pivot record deletion to that listener and improve tests
The 'tenant pivot records are deleted along with the tenants to which
they belong to' test is failing in this commit -- the listener
for deleting mappings when a *tenant* is deleted is only implemented
in the next commit. The only change done here is to re-add FKs
(necessary for passing *in this commit* in that specific dataset
variant) that were removed from the default test migration as we now
have the the DeleteResourceMapping listener that's enabled by default.
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